Book Review: Star of the Sea by Joseph O’Connor

4.0 out of 5 stars Creaks a bit, but still afloat

 

The start of the novel was splendid, but his obsession with Lord Kingscourt’s sex life definitely detracts from the book. At the center of the story are also love stories, loves which are thwarted, perverted, destroyed by the Kingscourt men. Unfortunately, they all therefore lack depth in a novel of this scope. The famine aspect is covered in blistering detail, then forgotten.

 

Kingscourt’s character is by far the most compelling in the novel,  yet we learn little about him apart from the surface material until very near the end, by which time it is nearly too late. Mary is a cipher for the most part, as is Laura, his wife. Pius Mulvey becomes increasingly monstrous as the book goes on, to the point of him not even being human any more.

 

His willingness to do anything to survive which is commented upon by the author in the context of Kingscourt and the doctor Mangan’s conversation in the latter half of the book, does not excuse what he’s done. He blights the woman he claims to love his whole life and still expects her to come back to him.

 

The book becomes so Dickensian it loses its humanity and appeal. Even the name Pius is used with heavy handed irony.

 

Still, for its descriptions of Connemara, and the Famine, almost all accurate and very well researched, it is well worth reading. (even if it has been done better elsewhere). For some great books on Ireland and the famine, read Shannon Farrell’s historical romance novels of the period.

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Obama is the KING of flip-flop

I have to say that this article on Obama already getting ready to reverse his Iraq policy (such as it ever was!) with which he conned the American people
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20080703/ap_on_el_pr/obama_iraq

has really made me see red.

In The New Republic’s article earlier than the yahoo one, “The Flip-Flop Fallacy”

http://www.tnr.com/booksarts/story.html?id=19697b01-fe09-413f-b0e8-7d4c8cf0d098

it talks about how McCain has a good chance of winning because Obama is flopping around like a landed fish gasping for air.

Obama is the King of flip-flop on ‘policy’ and he isn’t even anywhere near getting to be president.

And perhaps is NOT cynical manipulation, as many of us suspect from this most smug and self-righteous of politicians.

But it most certainly IS evidence of his total inexperience, and his pronouncement onIraqa total betrayal of the people who believed him when he said he was for change and ending the war.

It makes it all the more reprehensible that he attacked Hillary for ever voting for the war (remember that we were ALL lied to at the time), AND it just shows that Bill Clinton was right–he WAS selling people a fairytale!!!

B. Clinton was painted the bad buy for doing no more than calling the guy’s bluff! What he was saying was nonsense, and now he is admitting it.

Obama then distracted everyone when he claimed that B. Clinton was racist, that he was saying an African-American could ever be president was a fairytale, and then he was on a roll in the primaries and seemed almost unstoppable.

Except that those of us who were paying attention and did not believe the rhetoric-he knew he was lying, and those of us savvy enough KNEW he knew he was lying!

About ALL of it.

It is just a pity that we are stuck with this media darling, made of smoke and mirrors, because he is a terrible Democratic candidate who undermines himself every time he opens his mouth and tries to talk about the issues, which he knows so little about.

Every public pronouncement reveals his hypocrisy, and ignorance. Don’t be fooled by the smoke and mirrors, and hey, anyone who thinks he does not NEED Hillary for VP is drinking the same Koolaid as the ones who helped him steal the nomination from Hillary (she should have been given ALL the delegates inFloridaandMichigan, in which case she would be the candidate!)

Look at the whole Pastor Wright fiasco-he told people that to disavow him was like expecting him to disown his WHITE grandmother–why not just say Grandmother and have done with it–who is the racist here?

By all means vote Democrat to end the current disasterous policies, but never be naive enough to think this guy will ever make good, or be able to make good, on his promises. And let’s look forward to the next Democratic primary season in 2011-12!! And get it RIGHT next time.

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What is Sleep Apnea?

Sleep Apnea is temporary, recurrent breathing interruptions during sleep.

Often characterized as “snoring,” we now know that it can be much more serious than simply an annoying noise.

It has been linked to many serious health disorders.

Learn more about sleep apnea from Johns Hopkins here:

http://www.johnshopkinshealthalerts.com/alerts_index/lung_disorders/1082-1.html

and then see if you should go to a sleep specialist who will assess you for sleep apnea and suggest appropriate treatment.

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Obama shows just how clueless he is once more

 

Obama has once again tried to convince people that all is rosy now that he is a presidential candidate. He is telling the American people we are going through short-term economic pain. And that another round of stimulus checks will solve it.

 

Dude, what ARE you smoking?

 

Cos the rest of us are looking at the real world:

 

Oil at over $140 a barrel and climbing, with production cut in Nigeria and now in Libya, food prices up over 10% just since the beginning of the year, so that it actually makes more sense to stock up on groceries than put cash in a savings account,  the stock market plunging hundreds of points every day last week.

 

Once again, you have proven you are out of touch with reality, and your smugness is detestable, because you are offering no real solutions to the millions of Americans you are trying to con.  And the more you feed people this bull, the less change will come about. We need an experienced politician with the ability to balance the books-you are right, we DO need the Clintons. FAST.

 

Yahoo news

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Book Review: How to Solve Our Human Problems

How to Solve Our Human Problems: The Four Noble Truths

by Geshe Kelsang Gyatso

Edition: Paperback

 

5.0 out of 5 stars

If you have problems with anger, this is the book for you

 

The book is really divided into two sections, one which illustrates the central points of Buddha’s teachings, highlighting that the source of all human suffering is really all in our minds. That it is our perspective on a person or event or thing, the ‘broken car’, the ‘enemy’ at work, that often stops us from being happy.

 

The second part of the book contains advice on anger, and how to cultivate patience.

 

The central argument he puts forward is that anger is a destructive mind, which causes pain to ourselves and to others. And that in the grip of anger, people behave in the most unskillful and even dangerous ways.

 

In the West we feel anger is a good thing, active, ‘getting things out in the open’ as it were, instead of ‘repressing.’ What it most often does, however, is makes the whole situation worse, because we are letting our often deluded mind, clouded by anger and disappointment, call the shots.

Think of Basil Fawlty in Fawlty Towers-his constant anger drove people away, and only made his daily life more and more complicated! I kept thinking of the scene where he gets so angry at his car he says, “Right, I’ll show you,” and begins to beat it with a huge tree branch while he tells it all the things that he has always hated about it. It doesn’t benefit him at all-he is still stuck right where he is, beating the same thing up over and over again.

 

We may not use the tree branch with our loved ones, but verbal lashing out can be even more damaging-we can easily get a new car, but can we easily get a new friend, partner, child?

 

As Geshe Kelsang Gyatso says, a patient mind is able to step back from the situation to see how best to deal with it without flying off the handle and causing one to do or say something they will definitely regret.

 

Arguments with loved ones, for example, are supposed to restore harmony and peace, but how often do they really? A whole chapter on reasons not to retaliate is excellent as well.

 

This is a very clear and concise book for people interested in learning more about Buddhism, based on Buddha’s first teaching, the 4 Noble Truth, which tell us that if we know where suffering comes from, its true causes, we can take steps to end it.

 

The ideas for managing anger and cultivating patience in order to keep control of even the most difficult situations is one which any reader can benefit from.

 

Geshe Kelsang is a Tibetan teacher of Mahayana Buddhism (Sutra and Tantra) who lives in England and has spent his career making these teachings clear and applicable to Westerners.

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Fashion Comfort and Style

 

Though style and comfort may appear to be a contradiction, it is possible to dress stylishly and still be comfortable! Thanks to innovations from designers like Stella McCartney and Donna Karan, women no longer have to force their bodies into stiff and tight clothes with unnatural shapes.

 

By using new fabrics and unique lines of construction, designers are now creating magnificent garments that fit and flatter the body without any of the sharp uncomfortable lines of the past that made a woman feel more like a mannequin than a person.

 

Some of the most stunning designs from recent runway shows are ones that incorporate fluid fabrics with distinctive draping techniques to create beautiful garments that incorporate comfort and style. Out with the corsets and girdles ““ comfortable style is finally available for every woman!

 

Look for the latest styles that are made in easy, fluid fabrics that flow over the body. The stiff fabrics of yesterday are typically uncomfortable and difficult to adjust to the body’s movements. Rather than walking around in uncomfortable,  sometimes scratchy, clothes, opt for softer fabrics that glide around the body and adapt to your motions, draping your figure rather than squashing it.

 

New styles and lines of construction mean that clothing is fashionable and up to the moment, and with the variety of choices available for styles and fabrics these day, where pretty much anything goes, there is no reason to be uncomfortable in your clothes ever again.

 

Even tailored clothing is being made in softer, more attractive fabrics that fit into busy lifestyles flawlessly. Many of these fabrics are wrinkle-resistant and require practically no ironing. Stylish, comfortable, and easy to care for…what more could a woman want? Women should never sacrifice comfort for style and with the current advances in fabrics, design and clothing construction; it is not even a problem.

 

Flip through your favorite fashion magazine or visit the ladies’ section at a department store and you will find examples of stylish clothes that actually feel good to wear. Forget about squeezing into tight, scratchy clothes– now you can look stylish and feel stress-free at the same time.

 

A humble black yoga pant for less than $20, combined with black shoes, flats or heels, can help you look stylish and comfortable at the same time, and can be dressed up or down with a longish lack tunic top as well. Just add accessories, attitude and flair, and enjoy. Now that is a recipe for comfort and style.

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Day Care Business for Work At Home Moms Part 3

[continued from Part 2]

Another important difference between looking after other people’s children as a nanny or teacher or daycare worker, and going into business for yourself, is that it takes time to build up a list of children who will attend your daycare. There are many home daycare centers to choose from in every town. Once parents find a good center they normally stay there long term.

Finding new clients can be difficult, especially if you don’t take care of infants or babies. However, there is often a reason why day care facilities refuse to take children under six months, usually to do with safety issues, and whether or not the child has had its vaccinations.

So you might find a niche specializing in small babies for those women who really need to go back to work but can’t find a daycare facillity willing to take a child under 6 months. It can be more demanding work in some senses, but then so can chasing around toddlers, and multiple kids in the terrible Twos stage.

Getting clients can be easier when you are licensed, but to begin with you need to rely on networking with parenting groups, people at your church, people in your community and friends in order to build your business.

Now that we have got the negative aspects out of the way, it’s time to consider the benefits of owning your own daycare business.

Continued in Day Care Business for Work At Home Moms Part 4.

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