The Probate Process

Probate is the process of handling the estate and assets of a person who passes away. The probate courts make sure that all the outstanding debts of the deceased are paid, and that the beneficiaries of the estate get what is left.

The important documents relating to the probate court case are known as the probate records. The first and most important document relating to the probate case is the will. The will should list the assets of the estate, who will be the beneficiaries, who will act a a personal representative for the estate, and who will be the guardian for any minor children. The will has to be legally drawn up with properly witnessed and notarized signatures.

There are many ways to draw up a legal will. Courts and law firms give away forms for will writing, and today, there are books, CDs, computer software, websites and e-books dealing with writing wills. Whichever method you choose to use to write your will, it is a good idea to get a lawyer specializing in wills to look over the final draft.

Another important document in the probate process is the proof of assets. The proof of assets is basically a list of the estate assets, which can include bank accounts, IRAs, stocks, securities, life insurance benefits, property, Social Security benefits, Tax Refunds, and any other item of value owned by the deceased.

There are other important administrative papers that are also necessary in the probate process. One of these is the petition for letters of administration, which is filed with the death certificate.

A judge conducts the probate court proceedings. With a letter of appointment, he appoints a person as executor of the will who administers the assets and handles the general proceedings.

Sometimes the judge will hold probate hearings and answer questions that are raised about the probate case by issuing written directions or “orders.” For example, the judge will issue an order to pay the deceased’s debts and taxes, then divide what is left among the beneficiaries.

The next step in the process is to post a Notice of Administration. This document is also known as the Notice to Creditors. The personal representative will give this notice after identifying, appraising, and safeguarding the probate assets, to the local newspaper. This document is published in the newspaper so that anyone, creditors included, can learn of the current status of the estate.

This will allow the creditors to take action if there is a claim to be filed against the account. The creditor would then file a “Creditor’s Claim,” which would allow them to get back any money owed by the deceased. In some states, like Washington, the Notice to the Creditor is optional.

After the creditors have been paid, the personal representative will distribute the remaining assets to the beneficiaries and heirs, who will then sign a document, the “Receipt and Waiver,” which says that the beneficiaries received their fair shares of the estate.

The last step for the personal representative is to submit all of the Receipts and Waivers and a document known as the “Declaration of the Completion of Probate” to the court for final processing.

Finally, the probate court will declare an order for the transfer of assets and property to the beneficiaries and heirs. With this declaration, the probate process is completed.

Probate is an essential part of estate management. The rules differ from state to state so be sure to look up the most recent information on probate in your state.

NOLO Publishers also has a useful website with Probate FAQs and a place to make your own will online. Go into your local library as well; chances are they will have some of the NOLO books right there for you to consult.

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Book Review: Porn for Women

2008-04-06 17:58:34
Book Review: Porn for Women (Paperback)
by Cambridge Women’s Pornography Cooperative (Author), Susan Anderson (Photographer)

Chronicle Books $12.95

Books Description
Prepare to enter a fantasy world. A world where clothes get folded just so, delicious dinners await, and flatulence is just not that funny. Give the fairer sex what they really want beautiful PG photos of hunky men cooking, listening, asking for directions, accompanied by steamy captions: “I love a clean house!” or “As long as I have two legs to walk on, you’ll never take out the trash.” Now this is porn that will leave women begging for more!

About the Author
The Cambridge Women’s Pornography Cooperative asked women, young, old, rich, and poor, “What really, really gets you hot?” Armed with their findings, they worked day and night to create Porn for Women. Susan Anderson is a Los Angeles-based photographer who believes the future of porn shouldn’t be in the hands of men alone.

Review:
This has offended a lot of people at Amazon, most likely because the title is misleading. Chronicle had gone for the SEX SELLS formula of marketing for this book and its spin offs, including calendars, postcards, and other books in the series, including one for new moms.

The book is comprised of PG-rated photos of our supposed hottest fantasies getting fulfilled, mainly of guys doing the housework for us for a change, and saying the perfect thing, like, “I’m so interested in what you’re saying..please tell me more!”

The whole point of porn is that it is just a fantasy. In this book, you’ll get some cute guys, and some sense of “If only my man did that.” Yes, for many women, it would be super to get a fantastic meal at the end of the day that you didn’t cook yourself! I was very blessed with a hubby who WAS able to cook that well, and do the vacuuming plus the ironing too! There ARE men like that out there!

For those who object to it being sexist, old-fashioned, or just plain silly, well, it is supposed to be a joke. Everyone I have shown my gift copy too thoought it was funny. Yes, a guy who puts down the toilet seat, or thinks you are too thin, now THAT is HOT!

This is not EXACTLY my total fantasy, I have to admit, mainly because I don’t fixate on finding fault with my partner.

I do just want to say though, that perhaps women should not take the little things like the toilet seat so seriously, and do we really have to worry so much about ironing?

Not to mention the fact that the only reason we should worry about our weight is for health reasons, not because of body image. We are far too self-conscious about the weight issue, for the wrong reasons. Worry more about being healthy, than HOT.

Finally, every woman knows what a man finds hot,”a woman with a good sense of humor, lot of self-confidence and sexiness. How do you get sexy? By not sweating so much of the small stuff around the house, and focusing on romance instead.

So if you have a good sense of humor, you will probably enjoy this book. It will definitely get a good giggle as a bachelorette party gift.

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